As a newly launched young person, the phrase “home is not a place, it’s a feeling” is something I resonate with when thinking about home.

I currently live in Banff, but I consider home to be two places – my new apartment and the house I grew up in Edmonton.

My childhood home represents my past

The home I grew up in brings up feelings of nostalgia, good and bad memories and represents a time in my life when I was struggling to find out who I was. My childhood bedroom still holds some of the important belongings I cannot part with. This home represents my past life.

My new home represents hope

I took the big step at 22 to move out on my own. My new mountain home represents my future life and gives me feelings of hope.

It is a close replica to the permanent home I hope to have one day. I am more in control of how my home feels now and can change things up if I see fit. I do have limitations however, since I am renting and have roommates with their own identities and interests. Together, we are creating a home that reflects all our personalities.

The furniture may not be mine, and the walls have memories of past owners, but I was able to put my energy into the space by deep cleaning as much as I could, using decorations and art that reflect my personality, and using lots of candles to give a comforting aroma that reminds me of Edmonton. These things bring the spirit of both my homes together, creating a feeling of unison and peace.

Space to explore what it means to be me

My current home gives me the energy and space to:  

• cook and bake
• clean to clear my head
• exercise
• paint and create art
• entertain friends and loved ones
• enjoy movie nights with my roommates
• snuggle up and read a book

Ultimately, creating my first home as an adult gives me a feeling of independence. It is allowing me to grow into the confident young woman I am today!